1. Respect, inclusion and basic conduct
Treat members, guests, hosts, volunteers, venue staff and leadership with dignity. Harassment, discrimination, bullying, intimidation, threats, stalking, sexual harassment, repeated unwanted contact, public humiliation, targeted exclusion, insults, slurs, hostile behavior and retaliation are prohibited. Disagreement is allowed; disrespect is not.
2. Privacy, confidentiality and screenshots
Do not share another person’s phone number, address, workplace, personal story, private message, voice note, screenshot, application information or identifying details outside its intended context without permission. Do not collect private conversations to embarrass, threaten or publicly expose a member or administrator. Safety concerns should be reported privately to leadership with only the information necessary to review them.
3. Photos, videos and consent
Ask before posting an identifiable photo or video of another member. Respect anyone who declines photography. If someone withdraws consent for an image featuring her, do not post it and remove it when reasonably possible. Never pressure a member to explain why she does not want to be photographed.
4. RSVPs, cancellations and attendance
Only the official RSVP or registration process confirms attendance, not chat messages, reactions, polls or verbal interest. RSVP only when you genuinely intend to attend. Cancel through the stated process as soon as plans change. Repeated late cancellations, no-shows, failure to pay by deadlines or holding limited spaces without follow-through may restrict future reservations or membership access.
5. Costs, tickets and refunds
Review the disclosed price, transportation and cancellation terms before committing. Pay by the stated deadline. Tickets, deposits and third-party purchases may be nonrefundable or transferable only under the provider’s rules. The community does not guarantee reimbursement for personal expenses, missed events, travel disruption or a member’s change of plans.
6. Guests and access
Do not add people to private chats, share member-only links, disclose private event locations or bring an unregistered guest without advance approval. Friends must use the official application or guest process. You remain responsible for following host and venue instructions.
7. Promotions, recruiting and member contact
Unapproved sales, fundraising, affiliate links, business promotion, recruiting, list-building, romantic solicitation, mass messaging and attempts to move or poach members into another group are prohibited. Do not use the member directory or event attendance to market through private messages. Written leadership approval is required for any promotional or partnership activity.
8. Conflict, complaints and public statements
Raise concerns through the designated private reporting route. Do not organize group-chat trials, recruit sides, pile on, threaten exposure, post selective screenshots or use social media to pressure another member or leadership. Participate honestly in fact-finding, allow reasonable time for review and keep the matter as confidential as practical. This does not prevent anyone from contacting emergency services or exercising lawful reporting rights.
9. Event safety and personal responsibility
Follow venue rules, host instructions and applicable law. Arrange your own safe transportation and emergency contact plan. Do not leave drinks or belongings unattended, pressure anyone to drink, drive impaired, bring weapons, engage in violence or create unsafe conditions. For immediate danger, contact 911 or venue security first; the group chat is not an emergency service.
10. Alcohol and substances
Alcohol is always optional. Members who drink must do so responsibly and may not pressure others, supply alcohol to anyone underage, use illegal substances at community activities or behave in a way that threatens safety. Leadership or venue staff may require a person to leave when conduct becomes unsafe or disruptive.
11. Leadership, boundaries and enforcement
Hosts and administrators may set capacity, deadlines, eligibility, safety directions and participation limits. A correction should be handled privately and respectfully. Depending on seriousness or repetition, responses may include a reminder, private warning, event restriction, pause, suspension or removal. Severe safety, harassment, privacy, fraud or retaliation concerns may result in immediate restriction while facts are reviewed. Membership and event access are not guaranteed.
12. Accuracy and continuing responsibility
Provide accurate contact and identity information and do not impersonate another person. Tell leadership when important application information changes. Policies may be updated as the community grows; material changes will be communicated, and continued participation requires following the current published rules.